Archive for December, 2006

the wedding.the marriage.

Monday, December 11th, 2006

I love wedding magazines.
I love wedding-stuffs websites.
I love” the wedding planner” movie
Well, I think I always got excited when it comes to a wedding… and I’ve thought to be a wedding planner, someday…*yeah, I got inspired by the movie! =D*
But…
As time goes by, as I grow and as I am actually already in that phase of have to think a little bit more about the actual marriage NOT the wedding. I’ve began to think…
Would I love my marriage?
Would I love my partner forever and ever?
Would I be able to bear all his habits? i.e: my dad ALWAYS snores in his sleeps and I can’t stand it.But somehow my mum can stand it for the last 25+ years…
and foremost, would I be as happy as I would be on my wedding day? *well, I’ve always think about my small-private-outdoor wedding in such a way that I think I would be the happiest person in the world just for that night =D*
Yeah, maybe I’m still too young for all these… but older friends and colleagues made me think a little bit faster about this =D

Well, I guess the answers to that questions would come out by the time I’m in the actual marriage not just the wedding.
I guess there are things that God has set you into that would not be as what we’ve perceived.
The wedding and The marriage is one of it.